Shifting of Socials: A Return to What I Know

I’ve spent so much time and energy trying to figure out how to fit my business into all the ever-changing rules and trends of social media. For years, I kept looking for new ways to adapt, new tricks to grow, new strategies to stay seen. But somewhere along the way, all that chasing made me scared, worried, and frustrated — and I found myself scrolling more and sharing less. Here is what I know is true for me:

Facebook has always been a difficult fit for me — loud, crowded, and more draining than it ever was inspiring. I’ve decided to step away slowly and for good. I’ll be sharing more about that soon, but for now, I just want to return to spaces that feel softer and more aligned with how I want to show up.

I miss the Instagram of old. I loved the days of simple photo-sharing, without all the pressure to create videos, reels, or play the numbers game. I’m choosing to share more photos, more moments — regardless of how the algorithm feels about it.

Pinterest was once a haven for inspiration, and I let it go chasing new, shiny things. I want to rediscover that space, and share there more intentionally.

Blogs have always felt like a place for wordy storytellers — and I’ve never thought of myself that way. But maybe it’s time to open up, just a little, and share more of how my everyday Danielle self weaves into my online presence.

Did you know? Multiple studies have shown that heavy social media use—especially among midlife women and creatives—can lead to increased anxiety, time distortion, and self-comparison. For artists, the pressure to perform rather than create can quietly replace inspiration with exhaustion.

I’ll be making small, intentional shifts in how and where I show up online. Not all at once, not dramatically. Just one gentle adjustment at a time — back to what I love, and away from what drains me.

If any of this sounds familiar, or you’re feeling the tug toward a slower, more intentional online world, you’re welcome to follow along.

Thank you for being here. I know there are many ways to spend your time online, and I’m grateful you spent a few moments with me.

More soon. Danielle

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CONNECTING THROUGH COMMUNITY

You can find this series on Pinterest — a quiet board to return to when the world feels too loud. Save, revisit, or explore more reflections as they’re added. If something in this post resonates, I’d love for you to save or share it there. I’ve quietly turned off comments here — but I hope the conversation continues in the ways that feel right to you. No pressure. Just a place to return to when the world feels too loud.

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If you're a student in one of my courses and would like to share your artwork in a gentle, non-performative way, I’ve created a simple PDF called “Connecting through Community.” It walks you through how to post your work on Pinterest and Instagram using hashtags, no Facebook required. It’s meant to encourage quiet connection, not overwhelm.

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